What BDSM sites should you know?

July 26, 2023

Most Important BDSM Sites

The different communities and dating sites to know for your fulfillment in BDSM.

Fetlife

Most important

This is the reference site for the BDSM and kinky community.

Sometimes called the "BDSM Facebook", we build a page where you can put your presentation, photos, share writings,...

We can follow other accounts that interest us, find and add friends from the community.

It is also possible to subscribe to different groups, most of them in English, but some also in other languages.

And find in the "events" section the different workshops, munch and evenings. Online or by region.

BDSM.fr

The French BDSM site

It is a site dedicated purely to the French-speaking community, we create a profile there, it is possible to share photos.

Different groups are also accessible according to many themes.

It is also possible to share announcements, and to make friend requests (necessary to discuss in private)

The general wall makes it possible to share images and texts visible to all.

Discord

Not a site, but a platform

This platform brings together many BDSM communities whose themes are defined by the creators of the servers.

The terms of registration vary and the content also.

It is a form of online chat that allows you to chat with many members of the community.

The slave market (MAE)

Mainly dating site

The design of the site is very aging, it has the advantage of being able to be used largely for free, having quite a few fake profiles and allowing a search by kinks.

BDSM Sutra

Dating website

The site allows you to make your profile for free, but you have to pay to write and respond to messages, except to talk to gold members (subscription supplement)

You can find everything there

This site brings together many communities, and the BDSM community is part of it, it is a very free and catch-all network, you will find there, among others, the r/BDSMcommunity and the r/BdsmDIY

Facebook , Instagram , Twitter

The various generalist social networks

You can find different BDSM groups on Facebook, # on Instagram, and follow accounts on Twitter.

Generalist networks often include many newbies, and many fake accounts. They should therefore be viewed with caution.

But also make it possible to form communities and to interact with many known or less known members, on widely used platforms.

Note that even in groups and with specifically BDSM #s, nudity and sexual practices are generally not tolerated on these sites (Twitter being more permissive, and Facebook being less so), under penalty of sanctions, see deactivation of your account.

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